‘They did not understand’ Lk.2.51
Neither Mary nor Joseph understood what boy Jesus meant when he said, “I must be busy with Father’s affairs.” The passing comment of St.Luke, “they did not understand what he meant”, is important to grasp the true greatness of Mary as well as that of St. Joseph. St. Luke adds, “ His mother stored up all these things in her heart.” Lk.2.51
In Mary’s heart, there was a big store of things she did not understand. She did not understand all the words of angel Gabriel. She did not fully grasp why the promised child had to be born in a stable. She did not understand why she had to flee with the child to Egypt soon after his birth. She did not understand fully the words of Simeon, “A sword shall pierce your own soul.” She did not understand when later at Cana Jesus said,“ Woman, what concern is that to us and to you?” Mary did not understand when during Jesus’ public life Mary went to see him and he asked, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” Mt. 12.48. Mary did not fully understand why he had to suffer and die such a shameful death on Calvary.
There is a school of thought that says that Mary perfectly understood from the beginning all that was going to happen to Jesus. There is another school of thought that says that ‘they did not understand ‘ all that Jesus said and did. Luke seems to belong to the latter school of thought.
Faith is to believe in things that we don’t see. At Cana, we are told the disciples believed in Jesus after the miracle of water turning into wine. But Mary believed in Jesus before the miracle. By telling Jesus, “They have no wine”, Mary was not just passing on information but asking for a miracle. How did she know Jesus could work a miracle for he had not worked a miracle until now, for St John says, ‘ this was the first of his signs.” Jn. 2.11
Faith is to believe without signs. Faith is to believe that God is larger than our minds. Faith is to give a place in our hearts for things we don’t understand. There are things which the heart knows that the mind doesn’t understand. This is the truth that Mary teaches us. Mary treasured in her heart things that she did not understand. Mary teaches us that we can hold on to God’s promises even when we don’t understand.
Mary walked the pilgrimage of faith. Just as Abraham walked up the mountain of Moriah with Isaac by his side and the wood of sacrifice on his shoulders and yet believed that God is faithful to his promises, in same way Mary would walk up another mountain with her Son by her side and the wood of sacrifice on his shoulders and like Abraham believe God will bring about a fulfillment of his promises. By their ability to believe Abraham became the Father of Faith and Mary the Mother of Faith. The true greatness of Mary is her ability to believe. This is what Elizabeth proclaimed when she said, “ Blessed is she who believed” Lk.1.45. Thirty-three years later Jesus after his resurrection, would repeat the words of Elizabeth and proclaim Mary’s true greatness, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet believe.” Jn.20.29 Mary is the first of those who have not seen and yet believed. We would be taking away Mary’s true greatness if we didn’t understand the passing but important remark of St. Luke, “ they did not understand what he meant.”
- Fr T.V.George sdb, Feast of the Holy Family, 31 January 2023.




